Old 10-01-2014, 11:39 AM
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hopeful4
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Oh honey...you are setting yourself up for a lot of pain. Eventually he will be out and these will be HIS family functions, not yours. Give the gift ahead or right after with a polite note saying you cannot attend and wish them a Happy Birthday.
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