Well, then Art, you were BOTH drunk at the end of it. And did that help? I doubt it.
You can't change what people think, all you can do is control yourself.
While it's too bad your brother thinks that, is drinking wine changing how he feels about it? No. Aren't you just hurting you? Yes.
Perhaps the next time you know it's your brother leaving a nasty voicemail that will make you feel bad, hit "delete" and don't listen to it.
Hugs.
