Lots of wonderful advice on here! Well, we have a house together, daughter, vehicles, dog and chickens...either one of us leaving is not possible at this time. Thankfully, we do have tons more in common then drinking. I'll deal with him after me. Otherwise I will be the "nag" and only make it worse.
I count the drink but physically and mentally, Spirit let me have that mistake because it feels like it didn't happen. My mind is chatty but it's quieting down, I have more energy than I know what to do with, and I am straight up feeling ALIVE!