I lift too.
There are a ton of good websites dedicated to natural body building.
You have already observed that looks are not a guarantee of success with women.
(current lead singer)
Roids effect your emotions as well as your muscles.
I don't think I'd mentally or emotionally handle what is essentially liquid synthetic testosterone.
Besides ... they are illegal.
As I understand it, some states in the US have a zero tolerance policy on illegal substances.
Fancy a jail sentence as a result of trying to get ripped & pumped fast ??