Originally Posted by PippiLngstockng

After 2 years of insisting on a fair divorce settlement, I find I am not caring any longer. If I agree to less than I should get, I will have to partially live off of my retirement to support the children until I can start earning more money. But I just feel drained. I don't want anything to do with xah any more. Neither do my children, some days. If we can stop needing xah for additional money, we can decide more or less to not communicate with him any more. He is about to lose his overnights with the children, too. Less pressure to connect with him would be good for all of us.

Has any one out there settled for small amounts and regretted it? Maybe I will have no retirement money any more, but I will be free and my children will be healthier. Maybe I will have to depend on them some day or the government, but so be it. What will be, will be.