Thanks! Do you know how HARD detachment has been for me?? A few years ago, I would have been a sobbing mess, either in bed crying or on my way to see him. The fact that I am able to carry on with my night and plan for work and school for the boys tomorrow says everything to me. I wanted to feel this way for so long and it took a lot of small steps but I finally feel like I'm on the other side. I feel CALM. That's all I ever wanted. No panic, no anxiety attack, no feeling of doom or self pity.