I'm like cookies in that sometimes I'm afraid to post to you all. Thank you for this thread and the affirmations that it's ok.
I've been where you all are before in that my ex-husband was a sex addict. I understand so much of what you all talk about (addiction is addiction is addiction no matter the drug of choice). Good for each one of you for being here - for yourselves! I thankfully found COSA and discovered there is such power, strength and healing in numbers. Even in the midst of chaos. I even worked the steps with my COSA sisters. Don't stop fighting - for YOU and no one else (although everyone benefits)! It's worth the hard work.
Thanks again for this post and for being here. You are valuable members of this community!