RE planning, I've been ruminating about what to do about a bunch of upcoming weddings, hen's parties, etc etc. For one friend I have declined the hen's but I am attending the wedding. Its on 1 November and out of town. My friends are hiring a house and getting loose. I'm going to go and stay with my straight friend who has a kid and won't be partying. I'm telling some of these people that I've quit drinking (they know I have a problem) so my own pride will keep my accountable...
There's another wedding in town on the 4th October. Its reception only, the ceremony is just for family. Its the same group of people. I'm planning on going, making my appearance, wish the happy the newlyweds the best, have some food and get the feck out of there...