I used to only see the good that others had. Their car was better, their house was better, their job was better, their relationship was better etc.
It may look better on the outside but we don't see what another person struggles with. We tend to disregard them because we are jealous or envious of others.
When I walk around I don't wear all my troubles on my sleeve and neither do most other people. I can't see their bank accounts, whether their home is clean or has food in their fridge. I can't see their resentments or their fears.
Everything was all about me and I wanted to bring others down to my level and be in my pain.
I heard that if we took all our problems and threw them on a table, in the end, we would take our own problems back.