Originally Posted by
iamthird 
I feel like once I think he cannot hurt me anymore, he does. He already told me he knows it is a mistake but he doesn't have the fortitude to get sober so he might as well share expenses with her so he can help me more financially. Really? Thanks for that!
Hark, I hear the quacking of an A! Honestly--what a load...
I'm so sorry you even have to listen to such crap. This is so clearly
not a statement any healthy, caring person would make. I know you feel hurt, and I'm sorry you do, but you deserve sooooo much better than this!
Can I suggest coming around here (and/or Alanon) more regularly? I've kind of had a mini-meltdown myself recently and although I was feeling like "where did THIS come from, out of the blue?", it was
not out of the blue. It came from my failure to use the tools I've learned about and falling back into my same old hole. I know I have the means to climb out if I just use what I've learned. It could likely be the same for you.
((((hugs)))) Wishing you strength and clarity.