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Old 09-11-2014, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by auroraxborealis View Post

I hate whe you respond, Anvil, because I think you're my super ego.
She's been around the block a few times and I love how she just tells it like it is...and glad you appreciate the straight shooting solid advice.

I don't agree with ratting this out to the rehab, that's stepping into what's not yours to control. They are pretty sharp at rehabs and know the tricks and hiding places and soon enough he will get himself thrown out if he doesn't humble himself to following the rules. You don't need to be involved in that, his bad choice = his consequemce.

That said, if asked I would not lie either. I just wouldn't go out of my way with this since you have decided no contact is a good way to go.

Good luck, I think you will be fine...you listen well.

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