Lovenlies

Recap
My xabf was lying to me and his girlfriend. His GF texted me and the truth came out. She and I talked and texted and I was genuinely concerned about her because he was physically and verbally abusing her when he is intoxicated. (BTW he told me he wasn't with her and that he wasn't attracted to her. She's old and not his type at all. He loves me and has always loved me and wants a future with me....blah blah blah.) Tried to be there for her. Told her to get therapy, come to SR, and go to Al-anon. I've also told her to text me if she ever needed to talk or just needed support.
I'm actually doing ok, cause that was the last draw for me. I don't need someone like that in my life. The alcohol, the lying, the way he talks to me when he is drunk (very sexual in a gross way) and betrayal is too much for me. I've blocked and erase him from my contact, but he found a way to text me and tell me he is still with her and that my plan didn't work and she loves him. OMG. I really don't care what happens to him at this point. It's his life and he is free to choose whatever he wants to do. I just wish he would just leave me out of it. He told me that I backstabbed him by telling her....blah blah blah. Really?!?! She texted me at 4:00 in the morning cause he was drunk and finally let go of his phone. And he was the one who lied toner and I. Grrrrrrrrr.
I haven't even texted the GF to see if she is ok cause I don't want to know anything about him. I feel bad but I am putting me first. She is a grown woman who knows he is an alcoholic and I have informed her of the other stuff that she totally didn't know about. I've done my part in order for her to make her own decision. Right?
Thanks everybody for letting me rant.