I used to think the way you are describing...that bum should just get a job. That fat person is so weak. I rationalized my own sickness on those around me. I did believe it was a zero sum game. Yeah, I once thought kids on Ritalin had an unfair advantage in school.

My htinking was askew and it took my own acceptance of me to realize how off my previous thinking was. This was the mind of an active addict/alcoholic though. I no longer think this way.