Originally Posted by
suki44883 
I'm sorry you're going through this. I know how much it hurts to be at odds with a daughter. However, your daughter is 19 years old and as such, is considered an adult. If she wants to stay with your parents, and they want her there, then why not just let it be? Maybe just step back from the whole situation for a while?
I've tried to do that for two months, just let things be. But my mother keeps calling me and wanting to talk about everything, despite my trying to back away and detach. My parents don't want her staying with them all the time, just a couple of nights a week. They've made that clear. Daughter is in school and still financially dependent on us.