Hey wodge,
I have been separated for 1 1/2 months and haven't heard anything from her in only the last 2 weeks. I feel like I am just starting to grieve and move on because she isn't trying to get to me through third parties. NC has definitely helped me to get the space I need to figure me out. As far as it being mean or disrespectful, well the way I see it is I haven't been shown any respect so why do I want to continue to open the door for that type of treatment. I find myself missing "her" but not exactly sure what I am missing. Missing the ghost of what I thought we would be I suppose. You can do it, I feel your pain. It gets easier but there are some bumps along the way.