Hello. I am coming in late and just want to offer you a warm welcome. You have been given great advise, I just want to let you know I am here, reading this, that I support you!
I too agree that her continual texts are simply a way to further manipulate the situation, even if she does not even realize it.
No contact will make your life easier, I promise. If you are still there, I hope you enjoy San Fran! That is one of my favorite areas of the country, especially this time of year.
Hugs, you can do this, you are not alone!