Originally Posted by
Wodge 
but wished her the best - and told her again that I didn’t want any more contact. (............)
I didn’t reply to any of the two texts, but feel a little now that I should have, because it is respectful to do so (to myself as well as her)
I just wanted to point out that you had already said you didn't want any further contact with her. Quite clearly. Her question was just a test to see which buttons she could push to get a response. Not responding to her button-pushing isn't rude, it's not disrespectful. It's abiding by your own wishes.
Hang in there.