hmmmm, uber controlling woman terrorizing Alanon meetings....go figure!!!
i say that tongue in cheek because it really shouldn't be surprising....but it can stilll be very distressing and distracting at the same time. and it's sad when it happens in your own home group.
depending on how disruptive she is and how many others find her disruptive, it's possible to call a group conscience regarding her attendance. but it's really hard when it comes down to brass tacks to raise your hand and vote somebody off one of the few "recovery" islands.
for now, YOU have to do what is best FOR YOU. gotta finish sewing the costume before we can be superheros and save the planet. i've heard good things about Celebrate Recovery and many churches have similiar type programs. i'm sure with a little Google savvy and maybe some networking you'll find exactly what you need!!!!