there is no sliding scale when it comes to needing to clean up one's life.
you either are or you are not.
you either want to or you do not
I don't know if I qualify as the "real deal" according to the Lionhearted1. But I can assure you I qualify as one who needed to and wanted to.
So what about you? Did you come here just to rant or are you concerned about yourself and want to do something about it?
Welcome to the forum. You'll get plenty of support here. We don't discriminate, we help rich people too.