1 step, your rant is the same sort of stuff we are all going through. It's hard to call up a friend and tell her that my relationships are in turmoil, but it's hard to sort out what part alcohol has played in the whole thing. She's not going to get it. We do. I actually had to call a family meeting and reset some boundaries for myself a few weeks back, and although there is still outrageous drama, I have absolutely no part in it. I think it's ok to set some boundaries to let yourself heal and to get some honest perspective on the situation. Your girls will only benefit down the road.Good work!