(((AppleKat))) Enjoy your refreshing NA drink and think of how good you are taking care of yourself.
Can you spend some time with the kids or take a walk away from the "party" for a few minutes?
You got this. Reread your post about last year's Labor Day Weekend. If you don't drink today then tomorrow you will have no regrets and will feel so great about yourself for getting through this.
As Determined says..."Eyes on the Prize"!