Obo, you'll find there's no shortage of freely offered parenting advice out there, whether you want it or not... You'll do fine. Trust your instincts, and listen when your child tells you what he or she needs. Everyone parents by trial and error.
Izzy, perfection is an impossible standard, and you are wise to free yourself from it's pursuit. I think our children really benefit from seeing us as real people rather than images of perfection, and when we give them that we also give them permission to be just who they are.
Freein, sobriety is about freedom for me, too. Mostly from feeling like I needed to hide myself away from everyone. It still feels like an incredible relief.
Up, once again, thank you for your very insightful thoughts.
Mariah, I hope you have a restful weekend, you deserve it.
I hope all the rest of you have a good weekend, too.
I'm still painting away, and starting to wonder what I was thinking by taking this project on.
I've been thinking about change, and how it's inevitable, but how hard won change is invaluable and empowering. Experiencing this ongoing journey with all of you is incredibly inspiring.