Amy and MMB - thank you. I have good lawyer, at least a lawyer who has been worth her fee so far, and steers a steady, fixed course through the drama. I feel very confident in her. I hope it doesn't go to court, she tells me that most cases get settled out of court just before with an offer. But we need to go to court to get him to disclose. It is like a poker game. I am ok with that, I just don't know what that court bit would feel like. But as you say Amy, his continued non disclosure will not go down well with the judge, so maybe he'll come around. He is not living in the family home, he has moved, but still has his lawyer believe he's there. Also swears blind to her that he has no more assets. So, as we haven't exchanged yet on the house sale, where did all that cash come from? He is man who respects no rules, never has .......I think he may be in for a shock when he realises he hasn't scared me off. We'll see.