Originally Posted by
RocketQueen 
I hear what you're saying flynbuy, and appreciate you taking the time to reply, but I didn't ask the question to be attacked. I asked for advice on the situation, and like I said, the circumstances surrounding him spending time with my daughter are a story for another day. It's not a black and white situation, and it is most certainly not as simple as saying "you cannot drink around our daughter ever".
Not sure why you think I was attacking you - if so, I am sorry you feel that way.
That said, you stated your husband is an alcoholic - you also posted " I have spent my entire life trying to shield her".
Not sure what you are after - you want your child to be safe and unaffected by the actions of a drunk, on your terms though.
When you try to do damage control it seldom works.
Take away from SR what works for you and leave the rest alone - me, I suppose. I did not attack you in anyway - just spoke the truth as I see it based on your post.
Wish you the best of luck under difficult circumstances. That's all.
peace