I am 34, and we have no kids. He is 10 years older.
I have no friends here because of a very specific situation (moved miles away, new environment, new continent, it was super hard)
No, I have no attorneys, never spoke to any. Never thought I would need one, and do not have that money (again, I did not know how much things cost round here, it took some time to adjust)
Yes, I could support myself. Not much, but enough to live independently.