First Welcome.
So sorry for all you have been through.
Sounds like you cleaned out the A's out of your life in one big swoop.
Folks around here and Alanon can go on for YEARS and not manage that.
But you may have read noted on here . . . HERE we try to work on US (not so much ANY of the Them.)
So if you flipped a coin and got to wish which side it landed . . . Do YOU . . . NOW . . . consider YOURSELF more of a person with an Alcohol Problem or more of a person who has had Problems with OTHER Persons' use of Alcohol?
Just asking so you will know which door to go at the meeting hall. AA or Alanon? Usually they are right next door to each other.