Old 08-12-2014, 03:55 AM
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GracieLou
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Originally Posted by Jaydee1014 View Post
I don't know what to do anymore
There is nothing you can do. He has to decide when or if he wants help and it does not appear he is there.

He keeps you hanging on with fake promises of change but does not change. His actions speak louder than his words.

It sounds as if you are at the end of the rope, it is time to let your end of the rope go. Life is to short and precious to spend your days worrying and hoping he will change. I am not going to tell you he won’t but it does not seem it will be anytime soon.

If it meant to be, it will be. In the meantime, move on and get yourself out of the vicious cycle of active addiction.

Nothing changes, if nothing changes. It is time for you to make the change by stopping your nightmare by moving on. I know that is easier said then done but it is the best choice for you. Think of yourself, let him worry about him.
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