It wasn't him. All worked up for nothing. Turns out it wasnt identity theft afterall...my brother thought he was filling out a survey not a credit app...so he says...after calling the Stores credit department and being reminded.
So emotionally stable of me to get so upset without all the facts. Geesh. I am bitting my tongue next time...at least I know he isnt THAT Stupid. Although I am still mad about the thousands he owes me.
I have changed all my passwords and requested new cards from all banks and hope I can get a grip on my finances!