boundaries are for you and the children...
unexceptable behaviour is that! Unexceptable...
start planning...
a letter? pppffftt, like he is really gonna listen to that...you are dealing with an true A here, it only gets worse...
ummm wait? wait for what?
the 3c's
you didnt cause this
you cant control this
and there is NO cure...
the A needs to do all the work, if HE wants to..you can not force someone too...
have you read CO DEPENDENCY NO MORE by Melody Beattie....this will help you alot...
save those kids! and the rest will come
god bless