For the record, I am a hyper control, type A person. Part of this is due my nature and part due to nurture. I'm an only child who was taught that my Mom's needs (she was in a deep depression growing up with many phobias) and other people's needs were greater than my own. I have 12 hour work days every day (3 hour commute to and from work), I have a high stress job, I handle the housework, finances, and my Mom moved in with my husband and I 11 years ago after my father passed away. I honestly never relax, unless I'm in a beer buzz. However, I always feel sick after the buzz wears off. There are two areas in my life that I let be out of control.....drinking beer and eating. I'm taking on the most important one first and that's drinking. If I cannot tackle this on my own and with SR, I will go to AA.