Thank you guys for your advise. Again, I know I'm making the right decision, but I have a past of not sticking to them. I have a huge heart and sometimes that gets me in trouble. I don't like hurting peoples feelings or seeing someone upset on my account. But you are right...there are other people in this equation that I need to consider as well. Sometimes it helps hearing it from other people which is why I joined this forum. Maybe the more people that have my back and support me and keep telling me what I already know, it'll help me keep him at a distance until he can get himself grounded again.