Yup. They try to make you feel crazy and blame every single thing in life on you, even if you have absolutely nothing to do with it. It's a personality disorder, manipulation, narcissism, all sorts of bad things.
As long as you recognize it for what it is, QUACK, that's the main thing. I simply don't care if my X thinks everything in life is my fault. If he wants to think that it's fine by me. What he thinks about me no longer affects me at all.