Combakkid, my first husband used to say that to me all the time. He wasn't an alcoholic but mentally abusive. I'm not in a relationship now and haven't been for a year. Enjoying the solitude and not dealing with that mental bs. I'm afraid to even be in a relationship now because my past two were so mentally draining. Thanks for your post and I'm glad you aren't buying into the empty threats. I used to say don't let the door hit you in the a $$ on your way out!
