Maintaining your sobriety is the best thing you can do for yourself in any situation.
Getting through something like this without letting it trigger you makes you stronger.
For me, seeing my husband drunk and angry and obnoxious when I was sober was also
an excellent object lesson in how I had behaved towards him when I was drunk and obnoxious.
So, I took that in as a reminder of what I was not choosing for me and my relationships
any longer, and also after I cooled off, I had a little more understanding of where that
righteous anger he was full of had come from.
Drunks are a pain in the azz. No way around it.
Isn't it great you are sober now?