What does *this* mean?
My AH has started reading the Al-Anon book for For friends and family of alcoholics called Courage to Change. He brought it home for me -- he laid it unobtrusively on top of the television and just so I could just "find" it. Now HE'S reading it. I know he's struggling but won't do anything about it so I've detached from him. I take care of our children, am nice to him (who, by the way, is sick AGAIN), and live my own life without him.
Are the principles the same? Would he gain the same insight that I have? He refuses to speak about the meetings he attends and our communication as you can guess is only about when I need him to babysit the kids while I go somewhere.
Opinions?