Originally Posted by
SarArtist13 
SparkyMsparky, so true! Not sure if it will either, i have a lot to think about. i just hope i can make better decisions down the road, and put family first.
Hey, worst thing you can do is stop drinking for one week, that's it.
If you find yourself unable to do so, then you have an answer.
If you do it, and it poses no problem, try another week. See how that goes. See how you feel about yourself, and see how others feel about you. If you see a substantive change, then maybe others are able to see something you're not able to see.
Like it says in the MM forum, not a lot of people on SR are here because we are able to moderate. If we were able to, we wouldn't be here in the first place.
Whether we want to admit the truth to ourselves or not, I already believe that anyone who comes here thinks they may have a problem. It is truly admitting they have a problem (and this does deliver a blow to the pride, I know) that allows one to start the all important day 1.
Great to see you engaging with others though. Great first step.