Originally Posted by
Mirage74 
I'm realizing that other people, who know about it, don't want to let it go, or me to let it go. It's almost become a part of me. How do you get people to stop throwing the past up in your face?
Is someone bringing up mistakes you have made and trying to define you by it now? I did that to other people and myself in my own head. I started crossing out one hurt on the done to me side for every one I crossed out on the I did side. The whole thing just added up to we all make mistakes. Nobody should be defined by the worst moments in their life.