But I must say, that kind of attitude is exactly why I haven't gone to AA yet. Of course it is not a social club, but a huge part of recovery is having peer/sponsor support. It is hard to recover alone.
Also, I never said I was going into AA to find a significant other. Nor do I present as "needy and lonely" in any type of situation. So I don't appreciate the accusations. And I will be careful about expressing my emotions on SR in the future if making myself vulnerable will lead to this kind of misunderstanding.