Yes you all are correct . I will stick to all your advice . I wont be ignoring her or lashing out at her. I will be neutral. if she needs to talk to me i will be always be available but i wont be her enabler and give her easy way out.
i truly love her and care for her . So no help is best help .
i lost my soul mate to drugs but i wont loose myself and be victim of drug addict ex gf . Its tough very tough to move on from what we two had . She choose drugs and its her choice . I choose happy life and need to get back to dating other wonderful women out there .