I'm currently in the same situation- except my feelings towards him are anger. I don't want to talk to him, I feel like it's extremely pathetic and I have no sympathy for him. Before this, we used to be the closest thing on this planet. He used to be my rock. I can't talk with him about it because I DON'T WANT to be calm, I want him to know how his behavior pisses me off and that he's better than this. Strange that I would react in this way because I always had my dads back when it came to anything. But now I'm feeling like he's a loser and just asking for attention like a child. Why can't I be more sympathetic?