Love your insights, Amy. You are good! You have BTDT! The Stepford Wife is what he is looking for. He is a pure "man's man" and women have their place. It's like he comes from another time.
I am somewhat down but I am trying to stay realistic. I'm not ready for him to be here so if he is with another woman that's how it has to be. I did tell him I wasn't ready for him to come back and he has nowhere else to go. I may ...like you feel....someday want to thank her! lol