When I was with my ex, "teamwork" meant I took care of 90% of the household stuff, groceries, laundry, anything involving the car, yard work and childcare while he expected all kinds of praise and adulation for any bare minimum of responsible adult behavior.
Oh boy, he did a sinkful of dishes, time for a standing ovation. He wrote a check to National Fuel, better hire a sky writer and let everyone know!
It was utterly ridiculous.