Any thoughts on what is going on
My A quit drinking 6 weeks ago. We are separarted and I told him we could not be a family while he was still drinking. He got some meds to help him and he is doing great. So why isn't he home yet? I feel like he is holding back from me emotionally. I am really confused as to what goes on in their heads when they quit. He calls every day, we see each other at least twice a week. He will not stay for dinner but we can go out. He says (and I believe him) that he loves me. So why isn't he busting down the door to come home? I am trying to be patient and not push but it is getting old really fast. Anyone have any thoughts.