Originally Posted by
kalalanon 
I wanted to finish that conversation. I need to know where I stand! I want to know when I can expect him to leave! I want to know why he's not begging me to change my mind!
It can be so frustrating when our A's leave us hanging and don't fight for us, but the sooner we let go of the expectation that they will behave as a normal, healthy individual would in a relationship, the sooner we can move forward no matter what they do. Congratulations on all the good things that are happening for you right now. Use that momentum!