Originally Posted by
Mirage74 
I'm not sure I understand that, I've heard it before. When I see something I don't like in someone else, I guess I could fear that I could become like that. All I know is that I don't want to be like that.
It's been my experience that I sometimes judge others because they exhibit the same flawed characteristics as myself. That is, I won't work on (and may not even recognize) my faults, but I will readily criticize others who have the same character flaws.
I'm not saying this is what's occurring with you, but it may be something to consider.