Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
I've heard that when we criticise other people, it's because what we see in them is what we fear for ourselves. That's not meant as a go at you, but it does help us work on our own fears and self-regard. Whatever's going on in your head is from you, not an external source.
I'm not sure I understand that, I've heard it before. When I see something I don't like in someone else, I guess I could fear that I could become like that. All I know is that I don't want to be like that.
No, and it's this town, trust me. I've lived many places and didn't have this problem.