One thing you have to remember with any 12 step program: Take only what you need and leave all the rest. Some of the things Mandible mentioned do happen unfortunately in some places. When I see stuff happen that I don't like, usually I will find a new meeting and stick to the ones where I feel the most comfortable.
None of us are perfect. And as I always say, as long as you don't drink today, you're doing fantastic, no matter what method you're using.