i know a lot of people in aa who are stuck in there marraiges or relationships out of fear of being alone, they couldnt cope with having to do everything on there own etc so they stick in dead end loveless relationships
i was also like that and for years in aa i was unhappy as i felt a needed someone for me to cuddle up to each night as it would be heaven
i forgot that while in bed they would snore or fart or have feet that stink to high heaven or might pinch all the bed clothes
it soon takes the shine of trying to live with someone
i guess i am happy on my own with only me and the kids as i get my own way all the time with myself : )
i wouldnt swap the peace i have in my life for all the misery a relationship could bring and i look at some people in aa who really are not happy at home yet they stay there as its better the devil they know