its not so much if your going to drink again or not that people should worry about when getting into a relationship with and alcoholic.
its how good are they at working a daily living program, do they honestly put others ahead of there own self ? or are they still full of self ?
a dog would have a better life than anyone trying to live with an alcoholic who doesn't drink anymore but hasn't changed either.
how would you know if people have changed ? its simply look at how much work they do to help others
if there not helping others then there to busy helping themselves.