Originally Posted by
Carlotta 
This is not the first time you post about making some bad mistakes when it comes to your relationship with close friends...relationship and trust issues might be something that you might want to look into whether with a therapist or during your 4th.
also no mention of where yer HP is in this, anoronha, which seems to be rather common in your threads.it could be something that outside help is necessary, but It seems to me there is also a matter of practicing the principles of the program in your affairs. im sure the thought of a background check didn't pop into your head and you went right into action doin one. there was probably some time there to do a background check on yourself- as in working the steps on it and also talkin to your sponsor about it.
work the program as in.
In thinking about our day we may face indecision. We may not be able to determine which course to take. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We don't struggle. We are often surprised how the right answers come after we have tried this for a while.
What used to be the hunch or the occasional inspiration gradually becomes a working part of the mind. Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to be inspired at all times. We might pay for this presumption in all sorts of absurd actions and ideas. Nevertheless, we find that our thinking will, as time passes, be more and more on the plane of inspiration. We come to rely upon it.
are you relying on your thinkin or are you turning to god, asking him, and waiting for an answer?